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First of all, thousand apologies to whom it may concern. No offense. Wah gitu.. Macam ramai pulak baca blog i ni.. If you were in my shoes, you will understand how all TTCian struggling and  fighting with 1001 emotions. Yup, we are a weebit sensitive over conceiving and fertility matter. This is the fact, you've to swallow.

Ok, this is my confession. Kadang2 aku elak untuk berada di perkarangan rumah lama2 bila neighbours are around. Pardon me, I am not a sociophobic. The truth is, I am trying to avoid myself from being asked the same lame questions that more or less sound like this, "Dah ada apa2 ke?" or "Dah ada hasil belom?" or "Bila nak ada baby?".  As a solution, I just say "Hi" or wave my hand and smile to them. Then, straight to get into my house. That's it. 

I know some readers might say, "Alahai, sombongnya..". Are u kidding me? No I am not. Kalau aku sombong aku buat taktau je dgn jiran2 kan. Sekurang2nya adalah simple conversation di situ. Perkara kedua, situasi di tempat kerja. If you read this entry by a blogger who is a TTCian also, you will imagine what we feel right now.

Kalau kat tempat kerja, sesetengah makcik2 akan nosy nak tau. "Si polan yg kawin bulan 5 tu dah ada isi ke?". Kalau tanya sekali takpe la, boleh consider lagi, tapi lepas 2-3 bulan tu tanya lagi soalan yg sama? Apa perasaan anda? Sebab tu aku akan elak-elak la dari ditanya soalan macam tu. Buat2lah nak beredar segera dgn alasan ada kerja nak kena siapkan. Panas telinga oi.. Lagi satu nak elak dari menjadikan diri over-sensitive atau stress.

In a nutshell, some of us will act or behave like a sociophobic due to the struggle in diverting or fighting the same lame questions that can hurt our emotions especially the fertility thingy. You know what i meant! Aku doakan semoga semua TTCian akan berjaya satu hari nanti. InsyaAllah.